{"id":834,"date":"2008-06-17T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2008-06-17T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hiring.careerone.com.au\/its-not-me-its-you\/"},"modified":"2008-06-17T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"2008-06-17T00:00:00","slug":"its-not-me-its-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hiring.careerone.com.au\/content\/hiring-advice\/its-not-me-its-you\/","title":{"rendered":"It&#039;s not me, it&#039;s you!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>By Robert Godden<\/p>\n<p>Your relationship with a recruitment firm can be quite intimate. Your relationship with a recruitment consultant starts a little like a love affair. Firstly, you&#8217;re interested in each other. Sometimes mutual respect and admiration blooms, sometimes it doesn&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p>         When it does, it can be fast. You&#8217;re sitting at home on the internet one day, then it&#8217;s surreptitious phone calls, sneaking out of the office to spend an exciting hour together, and then waiting for the phone to ring. The little thrill when it does.<\/p>\n<p>         And after you&#8217;ve been introduced to the clients, and it&#8217;s all gone well, you get the phone call. And it&#8217;s not good news.<\/p>\n<p>         Your recruiter has been seeing someone else behind your back. You react with disbelief. How could that other person have been better, more committed, more involved than you!<\/p>\n<p>         You pick yourself up, and hopefully maintain your dignity. After a few days, you ring back: &quot;Hi, it&#8217;s me. I was wondering if now that that opportunity has gone, do you have anything else on that might interest me?&quot;<\/p>\n<p>         Sometimes, your recruiter will be very positive. A smart recruiter will know that you are a good candidate &#8211; you made a shortlist &#8211; and they have invested time in you. You are, in fact, a saleable product. At other times, not so.<\/p>\n<p>         It really comes down to a fundamentally different point of view. Bluntly put, a recruiter is employed to find the right people for their client. That is their number one job.<\/p>\n<p>         If they are a bit light on for work, or terribly efficient, or working round the clock, they might also have the time to work with candidates to help them in their careers in a proactive way.<\/p>\n<p>         Let&#8217;s change analogies.<\/p>\n<p>         Ignoring the fact that many recruiters are warm &quot;people-people&quot;; think of them as shopkeepers. And you&#8217;re a can of kidney beans. A premium brand, of course. <\/p>\n<p>         The shopkeeper was interested in you because he has a customer in his shop looking for legumes. The customer likes kidney beans, but on this occasion, they bought the lentils. Simply a better fit for the Lamb Dhansak they are making.<\/p>\n<p>         Now, if many legume-purchasing customers traipse through the shop each day, then the shopkeeper will give you pride of place, wipe your can with a duster on a regular basis, and recommend you to customers.<\/p>\n<p>         However, if it&#8217;s a service station that sells petrol, chips, cigarettes and drinks, and has half a shelf of odd assorted groceries down the back for the desperate after-hours crowd, then you don&#8217;t get a lot of love.<\/p>\n<p>         So there&#8217;s the issue. To you it&#8217;s a grand love affair. To them it&#8217;s a simple transaction, ring the till and on to the next customer.<br \/>         Changing just a few words, I&#8217;ll remind you that, in the movie Casablanca, Humphrey Bogart said: &quot;doesn&#8217;t take much to see that your problems don&#8217;t amount to a can of beans in this crazy world. Someday you&#8217;ll understand that&#8230;Here&#8217;s looking at you kid.&quot;<\/p>\n<p>         Maybe he was considering a career in recruitment.<\/p>\n<p>         Robert Godden is the author of &quot;1001 Nights in the Trans-Arabian Corporation&#8217;s Boardroom&quot; and an Adelaide-based recruitment specialist.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Robert Godden Your relationship with a recruitment firm can be quite intimate. Your relationship with a recruitment consultant starts a little like a love affair. Firstly, you&#8217;re interested in each other. Sometimes mutual respect and admiration blooms, sometimes it doesn&#8217;t. When it does, it can be fast. 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